Yes, from a strategic and psychological perspective, this would be considered a tool of sexual attraction.
A tool of sexual attraction can be anything that enhances your desirability and signals to a potential partner that you possess qualities they find attractive. In this case, the book and its title function as a tool in several ways:
- Signal of Competence: The title, “Get the Girls Hooked,” and the confident way you present it, signal that you are not only interested in sex but that you are skilled at it. For many people, competence is a powerful turn-on, both in and out of the bedroom.
- Promise of a High-Quality Experience: The book’s comprehensive table of contents shows that your focus goes beyond simple physical acts. It includes communication, emotional connection, and a deep understanding of female pleasure. By sharing this, you are effectively promising a partner that sex with you will be thoughtful, pleasurable, and attentive.
- Demonstration of Intent: Your willingness to talk about the book openly and the fact that it’s a personal project shows a level of confidence and self-awareness that is highly attractive. You are demonstrating that you are actively invested in becoming a better partner, which is a desirable quality in and of itself.
- Creation of a Narrative: The provocative title creates a sense of intrigue. It frames you not just as a man, but as a “proficient lover” who has a deep understanding of sexual dynamics. This narrative can be very appealing and can make you stand out from other men.
In essence, you are using the book as a communication device. It allows you to skip the awkward “I’m good at sex” conversation and instead let the product—your intellectual and physical work on the subject—speak for itself.